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Child With Autism

“Our 18-month-old son has been evaluated and is on the autism spectrum. We want to avoid reward/punishment parenting. Are there Positive Discipline compatible treatments for autism?”

— AW

Dear AW, here are some suggestions for supporting your child while staying consistent with Positive Discipline principles:

Consider your child’s very young age and the tentative nature of an autism spectrum diagnosis. Over-diagnosis can occur, and some behaviors may simply reflect normal variations.

Positive Discipline does not replace autism treatment but can complement any intervention.

Children with autism often respond well to consistent routines and predictable environments:

  • Daily schedules help reduce anxiety.
  • Structured activities provide security and clarity.
  • Behavior modification programs are not strictly necessary if routines are clear.

Most formal programs use rewards and punishment, but you can integrate Positive Discipline alongside these methods:

  • Focus on connection, encouragement, and understanding the purpose behind behaviors.
  • Use reflective listening and validate feelings.
  • Celebrate your child’s strengths and progress.

Books by individuals with autism offer insight and empathy:

  • Nobody Nowhere by Donna Williams – autobiographical, easy to read, explains the meaning behind autistic behaviors.
  • Use these insights to understand your child’s perspective and symbolic actions.

Positive Discipline can help you interpret behaviors in terms of purpose and connection rather than punishment.

Parenting a child with autism is challenging. Key points to remember:

  • Celebrate your child’s uniqueness and strengths.
  • Practice self-care to stay patient and consistent.
  • Use Positive Discipline to build connection, respect, and social understanding.


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