Bed Wetting Accidents

Bed wetting at this age is common, especially for boys and after the arrival of a new sibling. Changes in family dynamics, attention shifts, and deeper sleep can influence accidents.

Recognize that these accidents are not intentional misbehavior but a response to stress, change, and developmental factors.

Help your child feel belonging and significance before problem-solving:

• Listen and validate his feelings.
• Name his emotions: “I see you might feel frustrated about the wet bed.”
• Give hugs or spend special time together to strengthen connection.

Include your child in generating solutions:

• Sit together calmly, when the baby is asleep.
• Define the problem carefully — focus on the wet sheets rather than blaming the child.
• Brainstorm ideas: avoiding late liquids, peeing before bed, or using pull-ups.
• Ensure solutions respect both your needs and his capabilities.
• Try the solution for a week and revisit its effectiveness.

Using pull-ups is a respectful option. Present them as a practical solution, not a punishment. He may initially resist, but involving him in the choice can empower him.

Teach him how to help with sheets and laundry — turning the situation into a learning experience rather than a power struggle.

• Positive Discipline A-Z for Parents
• Positive Discipline the First Three Years
• Positive Discipline for Preschoolers

Remember, bed wetting is a phase. Respectful, supportive problem solving helps your child feel empowered and keeps your relationship strong.